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How To Give A Blow Job In 10 Easy Steps

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10 step by step instructions on how to give the perfect blow job.

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Scarlett Belle

As a recent college graduate, Scarlett refuses to follow the crowd when it comes to living her life. Working as a lingerie model to pay off student loans, she enjoys the time she has off to travel with her boyfriend to different adult entertainment conventions around the country. Her fascination for all things sexy has also lead her to write for Filthy Gorgeous.

I have been shocked to find out that many of my female friends refuse to indulge in oral sex. My parents named me Scarlett, and I’ve done my best to live up to it. I’d like to take this opportunity to tell your female readers that there is nothing more satisfying than knowing you have just given your man an astounding orgasm with your mouth. My boyfriend tells me that one of the best things about receiving oral sex is that he can just lie back, relax and enjoy himself. He doesn’t have to do any work, and he doesn’t have to worry about whether he is pleasing me, or if he’s going too fast or too slow, or whatever. Fellatio is pure pleasure for the man, and when performed adequately it can be the key to many things. My boyfriend tells me he decided to ask me to marry him when he realized he would never get a better blowjob than mine! Of course, what he doesn’t realize is that fellatio can sometimes be used as a reward, and other times as a bargaining tool. What’s alarming is how many women say, “You want me to put what in my mouth?” Of course, women who read this probably don’t have that kind of problem, but in case there are any wives or girlfriends out there who need a little coaching, I have some hints that I hope will be helpful.

10. Moisturize

First, you should keep your hands and lips soft at all times. I put on Chap Stick or Vaseline every night before bed to keep my lips smooth, and I moisturize my hands twice a day. Your hands can be nearly as important as your mouth. Keep your nails filed so there are no rough edges, and remove any large rings that might interfere with the smoothness of your caress before you attempt to give him what I call “the perfect O.”

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9. Lips Only

Don’t use your teeth. When women put on lipstick, they usually rub their lips together to spread it around. Well, pretending that you’ve just put on lipstick, press those lips together so that they are essentially wrapped around your teeth. Practice this repeatedly, since it’s the feel of the teeth that will make him go limp on you. The last thing you want to do is hurt him!

8. Practice

Practice relaxing the jaw. Depending on his diameter, you may need to open wider than usual. Try with a popsicle. Leave your mouth open for a few minutes, to get used to the feeling.

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7. Be Comfortable

Go to it! Having practiced these things, you’re now ready to start. One of the most important keys to success is to be comfortable. If you’re in a position where your neck is twisted or your back hurts, you’re going to be impatient and your movements will be rushed. Put on some music that you like. Dim the lights. Have a glass of water close by if you have trouble with a dry throat.

6. Control

Hold the base of the penis in your hand. This gives you some control over his movements and prevents him from thrusting upward suddenly. There is nothing less sexy than gagging in the middle of your performance.

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5. Lubricate

Lubricate him well with saliva before you really begin. It’s important to remember to go slowly at first. Going too fast too soon will only frustrate him. If it helps to think of something else at this point, do so. But if you think about how much he’s enjoying this, chances are you’ll start to become aroused too. Listen to every sound he makes. If you hear a moan or a groan when you touch a certain place, return to that place often. If you stay on it constantly it will lose its sensitivity. Just remember to go back to it frequently, and listen to see if the moans become more intense.

4. Be Hands On

Your hand should play a very active part in all this. I like to fondle the groin area, the balls and the soft place just below them; but always remember that the penis itself is where the orgasm is going to originate. Usually the underside of the head is the most sensitive spot of all. As long as the shaft is wet, you can slide your hand up and down on it and suck him at the same time. If you try stroking with your hand in the opposite direction to that in which your mouth is moving, you can sometimes create a very intense feeling.

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3. Create Sensations

If you make sure your teeth are covered, you can put your lips right at the very tip of the penis and push him into your mouth, resisting with the lips for a moment, then letting it slide slowly in. My boyfriend says that when I do this, it feels as though he is entering my vagina.

2. Bring Him To Climax

You may find it effective, especially when he is getting close to orgasm, to hold the base of the shaft in your hand, and as your mouth moves upward, give that hand a little twist; then twist it back the other way as your mouth comes down. This may not work for everyone, but my boyfriend goes crazy when I start it.

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1. Spit Or Swallow

When it comes to giving head, many women are faced with the problem of what to do once the man ejaculates. Do they spit it into a tissue? Or do they just swallow it before reaching for their water bottle on the nightstand? Either way, they are left with that taste in their mouth and the desire to brush their teeth. All men taste different and each one’s taste changes frequently. Semen can taste bitter, mild, or sweet. When it comes to spitting or swallowing, it’s a personal preference for each woman.

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